推荐学生

When to 推荐学生

Even though a student asks you for help with a problem and you are willing to help, there are circumstances when you should suggest other resources:

  • You are not comfortable in handling the situation.
  • The help necessary is not your expertise.
  • Personality differences may interfere with your ability to help.
  • You know the student personally (friend, neighbor, friend of a friend) and think you may not be objective enough to help.
  • The student is reluctant to discuss the situation with you.
  • You feel overwhelmed or pressed for time. 

How to Make a Referral

  • Be frank with the student about the limits of your time, ability, expertise, and/or 客观性.
  • Let the student know that you see their strengths and motivation, and that getting assistance from a professional resource will help them get closer to their goals.
  • Assure them that many students seek help over the course of their college career.
  • Assist the student in choosing the best resource.
  • Try to help the student know what to expect if they follow through on the referral.
  • Consider whether you or the student or both should make the initial contact. 

该说什么

  • "We all need some kind of help at some time.”
  • "咨询 has been helpful to many others 就像 yourself. You can try it and see 如果有帮助的话."
  • "If you don't feel comfortable talking to me about these matters, perhaps you would find it easier to talk to a counselor, privately and confidentially."
  • “We can call the Student Wellness Center together or I can walk over with you if you'd 就像.”

咨询 is Available

If you have concerns about a student, please contact the Student Wellness Center for 咨询. We are located in the Student Wellness Center, Third Floor, Room 300B. You can also give us a call at 408-924-5678. 

Some of the ways we might help:

  • Assess the seriousness of the situation
  • Suggest potential resources
  • Find the best way to make a referral
  • Clarifying your own feelings about the student and the situation

All students have to do is walk-in and ask to be seen. We always have some一个 on duty to meet as soon as possible with students who come in. The counselor will talk with the student and make plans for further appointments as needed. 如果你陪一个 student to our office, please let the receptionist know, and we will assist you immediately.